Friday, March 7, 2014


GOD BLESS NIGERIA!

Two days ago... precisely on the 5th of March, 2014, while having a date with destiny, I was oblivious that I had been coincidentally featured on page 27 of The Sun Newspapers...As we continue to celebrate our centenary...together we shall make Nigeria one of the most desirable nations where people from other countries will be scrambling for the Nigerian visa...

Regardless of the challenges we are presently going through as a nation...
I still remain an incurable optimist that it shall come to pass...
We shall come out BIGGER...STRONGER...BETTER as a united Nigeria!

God bless YOU!
God bless NIGERIA!
Regards,
TM™2014©








Thursday, January 2, 2014



A Nigerian author, Malcom Tagbarha, has released a book, Everything Good About Corruption, that managed to wow almost every reader that flipped its pages.
"Everything Good About Corruption" is one of the few books that bypasses readers consciousness to register its central message, without a word.
The book is an irony of its title but sparks a cocktail of feelings, ranging from amusement to bewilderment. In the end, the book utilizes the power of emptiness to deliver a strong message to readers - "There is nothing eternally good about corruption."
"It is written for the smart, sharp and shrewd minds that seek to RISE to the TOP of the list of the richest and wealthiest in any profession, career or vocation... .It is the ultimate guide for anyone who desire to be on Forbes list of billionaires," the author said.
Malcom, also a passion-preneur, said the book followed extensive research and interviews with politicians, professionals, corporate executives, entrepreneurs, civil servants, students, market woman and the average man on the street.
"Everything Good About Corruption" is a thought provoking and ground-breaking book that demystifies the myths and long-held perceptions about corruption and thus reveals never-before-known information about the subject.

Wednesday, November 20, 2013




PRESS RELEASE

Book entitled, “Everything Good About Corruption”- By Malcolm TAGBARHA

Nigeria no doubt is the largest and most populous black nation on the face of the earth with abundant natural resources to harness. And this has thrown up critical pathways and opportunities to wealth and fulfillment for the hard working and ambitious mind on this side of the heavens.

“Everything Good About Corruption” is a thought provoking and ground-breaking book that demystifies the myths and long-held perceptions about corruption and thus reveals never-before-known information about the subject based on extensive research and interviews with politicians, professionals, corporate executives, entrepreneurs, civil servants, students, market woman and the average man on the street.

It is written for the smart, sharp and shrewd minds that seek to RISE to the TOP of the list of the RICHEST and WEALTHIEST in any profession, career or vocation….It is the ULTIMATE GUIDE FOR ANYONE WHO DESIRE TO BE ON FORBES LIST OF BILLIONAIRES.

This is to officially inform you about its release. However, the date of its launch and public presentation shall be communicated to you in due course.

Sincere regards and best wishes,

Onajite Malcolm TAGBARHA(Author)

@malcolmtagbarha,
Malcolm TAGBARHA/facebook.com,






All Glory to God Almighty!

The centenary edition of my book,"Nigerian Passport to Greatness" is now officially out!
It is endorsed by the National Orientation Agency and the Ministry of Youth Development respectively for distribution to Nigerians all over the world.

As we mark the centennial celebration of Nigeria come January 2014, let us join hands together wherever we are in our various spheres of influence to chart a new course for ourselves and our future and lets collectively take our dear nation to her rightful place of GREATNESS! 

I believe in NIGERIA!
I believe in your FUTURE!
God Bless YOU!
God Bless the Federal Republic of Nigeria!
Sincere regards and best wishes,

Onajite Malcolm TAGBARHA(Author)

Tuesday, June 4, 2013

KNOW YOUR TEMPERAMENT...KNOW YOUR STRENGTHS AND WEAKNESSES

I did a research and found out that there are different types of temperaments and their features. I hope that with all I have highlighted below, you will be able to discover or rediscover yourself. It is very important that you do this, so that you will know and understand yourself better.

Take note that in discovering your temperament, the areas of your strength and weaknesses will become clearer to you.

To help you out on this, below are the strengths and weaknesses of each temperament.

The sanguine is sociable and charismatic.
They make friends easily and they are very optimistic. They are boisterous, confident and  they have a good sense of humour. People always end up laughing around them because they have a way of adding fun and colour to everything.

 On the flip side, they find it difficult to keep to time. They tend to be forgetful and sometimes sarcastic. They lose interest when the fun is over.

The Choleric is result-driven, aggressive, energetic and passionate.
They are task oriented and very strong-willed. They always want to "call the shots", this means that they have the tendency to choose a particular way of doing things for everyone.

On the other side, because of their aggressive nature, they sometimes tend to dominate others and impose their will on them. By doing so, they become over bearing to others.

The Melancholy is very organized and schedule-oriented.
They are considerate, cautious and sensitive. They are also highly creative in areas such as poetry, arts and inventions. They are self reliant and independent. Their caution also enables them prevent problems that others may run into.

On the other side of the coin, they tend to procrastinate. Their strong desire for perfection makes it difficult for others to please them.

The phlegmatic  is kind-hearted, consistent, observant, calm, rational and curious.
They are quiet, gentle, patient and warm-hearted.

On the flip side, they could be sluggish and lazy. They tend to prefer stability to uncertainty and change which could prevent them from taking risk, thereby putting them in a state of stagnation.


With the above, I trust  you should be able to know your area of strength and weakness as you consciously make effort to become relevant and successful in todays' world.

God bless you!
Regards,

TM™2013©

Monday, April 8, 2013

The WORLD's GREATEST PRODUCT - YOU (PERSONAL BRANDING)






There are two class of people on this side of the heavens:
1-Those that are reacting to what life has to offer.
2-Those who are responding by determining what life must bring.
My TAKE...Creatively and consistently control the perception of everyone that comes within your sphere of interest and influence.
You can do this skillfully with the aid of Y(our) O(wn) U(niqueness). This is a combination of your lifestyle/content - your formal and informal education, social skills, talents and natural giftings, your character, experience and personality.
In this connection, your relevance and significance to everyone that comes into contact with you will be determined by your reputation capital.
Meanwhile, your lifestyle is your reputation capital. Y(our) o(ur) U(niqueness).

Before I go further and for the sake of clarity,let me define personal branding.
What is a Personal Brand? A personal brand is the total experience of someone having a relationship with who you are and what you represent as an individual; as a YOU.
Think about what that means to YOU. Let it simmer. Ask yourself and then ask a close friend – what is the total experience of having a relationship with you like?
Write down the top 5 things you would expect others to experience and have your close friend do the same.
Are the answers the same or similar in meaning?
If they are, good for YOU!
If not, you have some work to do.

Every time you are in a meeting, at a conference, networking reception or other event, you should be mindful of what others are experiencing about YOU and what you want others to experience about YOU.
Each of these engagements is similar to a job interview – expect in these cases you are being evaluated by your peers. Those who know how to live and manage their personal brand will earn their respect in any situation.

At first, this is a bit of a challenge. However, when you start to see yourself living through the “lens of a brand,” your perspective will change and you will become more mindful about how you approach the personal brand you are trying to define and aiming to live.

Don’t confuse this with “acting a part.” To the contrary, you should focus on being more of who YOU naturally are and want to be so that you can perform and serve at your optimal levels. Keep in mind that we have been conditioned to want to be more like others. But your difference is your critical success and critical distinguishing factor wherever YOU are. As such, we are more likely to be accountable to others and what they want us to be rather than being true to ourselves.

If your classmates, team mates and/or colleagues don’t know what your personal brand is, the fault is yours and not theirs. Having a personal brand is a leadership requirement in any field, career or vocation you choose. It enables you to be a person of value, a more authentic leader that can create greater overall impact wherever you are. In fact, those who have defined and live their personal brand will more naturally demonstrate a charismatic and amiable presence and as such may find themselves advancing more quickly at work or career.

Personal branding is no longer an option; it’s a powerful enabler in life, business and career.

Thanks a bunch and may God Bless your heart.
Regards,
TM™2013©

Saturday, February 23, 2013

HOW TO STRATEGICALLY TURN YOUR IDEAS INTO MONEY






In Nigeria, there are three separate Arms of Government.
First: Legislative Arm. Second: Judicial Arm. Third: Executive Arm.
First: The Legislative Arm. The function of this arm of government is to prepare bills for legislation. After debate and consideration, the bills proposed are either passed upon or shelved. Those passed upon become laws.
Second: The Judicial Arm. The function of this arm of government is to interpret laws, render judgment and to determine the validity of any law passed by the Legislative Arm. Is the law in harmony with the Constitution? Does it conform? Does it meet a need? These are questions which the Judicial Arm may ask concerning any law. The Judicial Arm can declare any law passed by the Legislative Arm null and void.
Third: The Executive Arm. The function of this arm of government is to execute, and to put into action all laws that have been passed upon by the Legislative Arm, and that have not been disapproved by the Judicial Arm. The Executive Arm of government makes the law a reality.

Now, you are like a nation, Nigeria for example and your Mind is the government, while your ideas are like laws, and they MUST be obeyed.
There are three separate Arms of the Mind which deal with ideas. The function of these Three Arms of the Mind bears a striking similarity to the three Arms of Government. There is the Emotion (Legislative Arm of the Mind), the Judgment (Judicial Arm of the Mind) and the Desire (Executive Arm of the Mind)
First: The Emotion is the Legislative Arm of the Mind. Emotion comes from the Latin word "emovere," which means to "move out." It is a vibratory thought moving out of the mind, which is attracted by an outside influence expressed or manifested either in another idea, suggestion, symbol or thing. It is to be aware of something instinctively or intellectually. The Emotion is the antenna of the Mind radiating and emitting thoughts into space, and also receiving them from space. All ideas, thoughts, suggestions or impulses that come to the Mind are received by the way of the Emotion. An idea of quality and merit is given consideration and passed upon by the Emotion, which is the Legislative Arm of the Mind.
Second: The Judgment is the Judicial Arm of the Mind. Judgment is the act of judging the operation of the Mind, involving comparison and dis-crimination by which knowledge of values and relations are mentally formulated. To analyze, to reason, to discern and to interpret ideas is the power of the Judicial Arm of the Mind.
After the idea has been passed upon by the Legislative Arm of the Mind, the Emotion, it is turned over to the Judicial Arm of the Mind, the Judgment. The Judgment weighs every detail of the idea to determine its quality, its usefulness viz-a-viz the environment, usually to ascertain whether it meet a need and also to establish its validity. The Judgment also acts as the supreme arbiter and can declare any idea or impulse null and void, even though it has been passed upon by the Legislative Arm of your Mind, your Emotion.
After the Judgment establishes the validity of an idea, it is then ready for enforcement and action.
Third: The Desire is the Executive Arm of the Mind.
Desire is the ardor of feeling. A longing to see your idea in action. The Desire executes and puts the idea in operation. The Desire transforms the idea into a Reality.
It takes all three Arms of the Government to make a law a Reality, and likewise it takes all three Arms of your Mind to turn an idea into a Reality. The Emotion passes upon the idea, the Judgment interprets and establishes the validity of the idea, and the Desire executes the idea into a Reality.
An understanding of these three Arms of our Mind will help us to make our dreams come true, qualify us to have an abundance of everything, and enable us to turn our ideas into money.
 A knowledge of all three Arms of our Mind is essential, but the ultimate and complete fulfillment of an idea is dependent upon our Desire. Desire is a combination of feeling, passion and action, and brings into force all the qualities, attributes and powers of the Mind.
What is an Idea? An Idea is an image formed in the Mind. It is a mental picture of something seen, heard or thought. The formation of a pattern by which something is developed or created.
Ideas are constantly and incessantly striking the Emotion, the Legislative Arm. Some are declared null and void by the Judgment, the Judicial Arm. Others are consumed in daydreaming, and passed off as fleeting notions. Others take wings and fly away. Ideas come and go, and are usually dropped with a wish. Thus the old saying goes: "If wishes were horses, then beggars would ride."
A wish is all right in its place, but seldom does it turn into money. On the other hand, some of our ideas are good, and can be turned into money. On these we want to concentrate, and convert into money. And this can be achieved by our Desire, the Executive Arm of our Mind



How can you turn your idea into money?
This is a simple and fascinating process, and one to enjoy.
It matters not whether you work with people, words or things. It is very essential to have a vehicle in which to convey your Idea to others. The best vehicle to convey an Idea is a Plan. A Plan gives to the Idea a Body. A Plan transforms the Idea (concept) into an Ideal. An Ideal is a perfect image, and establishes a true conception of the thing you want to create, or the event you want to bring about in your experience or reality. Someone said, “If you fail to plan, you plan to fail”
Everything you observe in nature is an Idea of God, and is manifested in a Plan. This Plan gives to the Idea a Body expressed in form, size and color. If this were not so, it would be impossible to identify and classify the different varieties and species as they appear in nature. This is a definite clue as to why all ideas to influence people or to create things must have a Plan.
This great principle is manifested all about us. Everything created by man had its origin in the Mind. It is first an invisible idea before it becomes a visible thing. It is a thought, then a product. All successful ideas for accomplishment must have a Plan. A Plan not only identifies your Idea, but it also distinguishes it and gives it the momentum to operate.

Three definite Principles are essential to create a Plan for your Idea.
First: Create a Plan for the thing you desire. Second: Develop a Process to put the Plan in Action.
Third: Produce an act or strategy to make the Plan a Reality. A plan for the thing you desire entails a very definite and specific idea of the thing, position or situation you want. After a definite decision has been reached, then proceed to build a Plan around this Idea.
It is a very simple process to build a Plan, and do it scientifically with your ORIGINALITY or UNIQUENESS in mind. It must be planned. A mass of material thrown together will not build a house. Every brick or block, every plank and every nail must have its place. The same is true in building a Plan. Every word, every thought and every sentence must have its place. A Plan is organized knowledge for portraying the reasons why the thing or position desired should become a Reality. It is the art of creating in the mind of someone else a belief in the Idea you wish that person to accept.
The most scientific way to build a Plan is to get all your material together, get all the facts, and find out everything you can about the thing you desire. Get its history, background, economic relation and the part it plays in life. Analyze these data, catalogue them, classify them, organize them, define them, refine them and take the best parts of them and translate them into your Plan. Include in this Plan anything that will improve business, anything that will contribute to the welfare of others, anything that will add peace of mind to people, anything that will enrich the happiness of others, or anything you can find that will help you to turn your Idea into Money.
Present this Plan in sequence, enumerate each point step by step, and try to use meaty and inspiring words with a picture meaning. Speak or write your Plan in concrete terms, not in abstract phrases. Make it brief, concise, direct, definite, forceful and by all means understandable. Season the Plan with the savor of personal interest…flavour it with the spice of enthusiasm…and sweeten it with the sugar of kindness.
Second: Develop a Process to put the Plan into Action.
By inaugurating the Plan for the thing you desire you have decided definitely what you want. The Plan to accomplish this is now established. What is the next step? To develop a Process, to put the Plan for the thing you desire into action. A Process is the act of proceeding to put the Plan in operation. This is brought about by the application of Four Definite Laws, and each one is essential to the fulfillment of the Plan. These Laws are:
1. THE LAW OF FAITH
Paul in the bible gave to the world the greatest definition of Faith: "Now faith is the substance of things hoped for, the evidence of things not seen." Faith is believing and trusting wholeheartedly in the invisible forces of God which are the substance of things hoped for; and by adhering strictly to this Faith, the substance of these things will become the evidence of those forces, and make their appearance in your experience or reality.
Someone asked an American named Andrew Carnegie what he considered the greatest thing in his phenomenal success. He answered: "Faith in myself, Faith in others and Faith in my business." The world always makes way for the man who knows what he is doing, and where he is going.
Faith is a belief in the favorable outcome of anything undertaken. Faith gives life, power and action to your Plan. Faith inspires you with absolute confidence to demonstrate your Plan, and qualifies you to turn your ideas into money. By all means practice Faith.
2. THE LAW OF REPETITION
In nature the Law of Repetition is continuously and regularly repeating the same things. Every day the sun rises in the east, and sets in the west, with absolute precision. The night follows the day with immutable certainty. The four seasons are consecutively repeating themselves one after the other with inexorable accuracy. The astronomer sets his clock by this undeviating law.
The Law of Repetition has been one of the contributing factors in teaching you most of the things you know thoroughly in life. For example: When you were little, it took you quite a long time to learn how to walk. Then you finally learned by the Law of Repetition. You kept repeating the same movements every day in every way. Finally, through your own experience you acquired sufficient knowledge, poise, and confidence to qualify and perfect you in the Art of Walking. In the beginning it was a very difficult task, but once you acquired the knowledge and experience of how to walk, it became very easy.
You learned to talk by the same law. As time went on, to school you must go, and again the Law of Repetition became your teacher. Over and over, it drilled you in memorizing the A, B, C's, the multiplication table, and that first poem you recited before the class. The things the Law of Repetition has taught you are embedded into your consciousness. They are a part of you and the application of them is natural and easy.
The trick of the magician looks easy. It is easy for him. He has made it easy by the Law of Repetition.
As applied to the Process to put your Plan in Action, the Law of Repetition is the act of perfecting your Plan. You do this by practice. You learn to know it, you learn to time it. You know when to speak and when to be quiet. You sense the proper pitch and inflection to give each word. You have confidence in your Plan. You learn to feel your lines and every thought in them becomes more inspiring and more invigorating. It becomes a part of you. You can give it in perfect sequence and in perfect co-ordination. You find it has magic in it, not only for you, but for those to whom you present it. By practicing and demonstrating your Plan, it gathers its own momentum, and throws out its own aura. Your thoughts become magnets and you can make others feel the impulse of your Plan.
Every time you go over your Plan, you learn something new. You learn to develop new inspiration, new interest, new zest and new enthusiasm. By all means rehearse and try to perfect your Plan by applying the Law of Repetition.
3. THE LAW OF IMAGINATION
Imagination is the power to think in terms of images or pictures, words or things. It is the workshop of the mind. Here the Plan is given shape, form, and made ready for action. This faculty of the Mind is able to visualize and imagine an idea in action.
To illustrate the dynamic power of the imagination to develop an idea, it will interest you to know this story. About fifty years ago an old country doctor created a very wonderful formula. He did not know what to do with it, yet he realized its great value. He took this formula to a young drug clerk and explained its contents. This formula was only an idea to the old doctor but the drug clerk paid him five hundred dollars for the idea.
What did the young drug clerk do? He turned the idea expressed in that formula over to his imagination. He visualized its value. He discovered that the contents of that formula contained all the essential elements to supply people with a cool and refreshing drink, that would make them pause and give them a lift. The idea thrilled and urged the drug clerk to formulate a Plan, to put the idea of that formula into action. He wasted no time in creating a Plan for the distribution of a world-famous drink. That drug clerk was Asa Candler. The drink was Coca-Cola. Today the name Coca-Cola is on most billboards, and the taste of it on most tongues. That little piece of paper, with an idea mixed with the imagination of Asa Candler, turned into hundreds of millions of dollars.
A sequel to this story is that some years later when the Coca-Cola Company was well on the road to prosperity, a young man walked into Mr. Candler's office and suggested to him that he had a Plan to double the business of the Coca-Cola Company. For this Plan he wanted $25,000. The Board of Directors met and agreed to the offer. That Plan was short and to the point, and possibly contained fewer words than any other Plan ever offered to double a company's business. The Plan was: "Bottle it."
Imagination is one of the most valuable faculties --by all means develop it.
4. THE LAW OF PERSISTENCE
You can have Faith in an idea, you can perfect an idea through the Law of Repetition, you can use the power of the Imagination to visualize the idea; but with all these you must carry through. You must demonstrate Persistence.
Persistence comes from two Latin words, "per," meaning "to," and "sistere," meaning "stand." To stand or be fixed, and face all difficulties with un-daunted courage. To go on resolutely with your Plan, in spite of all opposition or adversity. To persevere with dogged determination until your Plan is manifested, and your efforts are crowned with success. Persistence is an attribute of character that guarantees the fulfillment of the Plan.
It is estimated that over twenty million people have read the book or seen the moving picture, "Gone with the Wind." Something accounts for this phenomenal popularity. What is it? Scarlett, the heroine of the story, remained all through the play the master of her fate, and never its victim. No obstacle, no tragedy, no disaster, no adversity, no catastrophe, no circumstance, and no condition daunted her unconquerable spirit. She met and conquered all of them with indomitable Persistence. A demonstration of the Law of Persistence enabled her to conquer fate, and to crown her efforts with personal triumph. This demonstration was a challenge to others to emulate her. They were eager to find out how she did it.
Each year at Wake Forest, where I went to college, Doctor Tom, the old colored janitor, was invited to address the student body and to offer his words of wisdom.
Doctor Tom's great admonition was repeated year after year. It was "Be sure you are right, and then be sure to go ahead." This is a vivid illustration of Persistence.
The Plan is right, you are right and Persistence will not fail to make the Plan work, and turn your ideas into money.
Success of any Plan is like pressing out cider with a cider press. You squeeze and squeeze and it seems as though the cider will never come; and then one big squeeze and out it comes. Persistence is the last big squeeze that makes the Plan successful. It has no substitute and it is well to remember that a "quitter never wins, and a winner never quits."
Third: Produce an act to make the Plan a Reality.
"All the world's a stage, and all the men and women merely players."
In the first Principle we acquired the knowledge essential for the Plan. In the Second Principle we learned the Laws necessary for its fulfillment. Now comes the Third Principle, the Act of Making the Plan a reality. In the last role we become a Shakespearean player. All the forces of character and all the attributes of personality must be generated to put the Plan into action.
An idea is an image. An idea with a Plan is a perfect image. It is an ideal. An ideal is something real, whether it be visible or invisible. It is a compound idea made up of many ideas. What happens when a Plan becomes an Ideal? The idea in the Plan becomes real to you. It is a part of you. The Plan is given a big reception in the Grand Ball Room of Consciousness. Here it meets urge, spirit, motive, confidence, courage and impulse of action. At this reception Faith embraces the Plan. Imagination praises the Plan. Repetition repeats the Plan and Persistence guarantees the fulfillment of the Plan. To visualize a Plan is to see it as a composite whole. To idealize a Plan is to feel it in action. Idealize is putting the "I" in the deal. You can feel yourself initiating the Plan with skill and performing every step with alacrity and precision. You feel its influence, not only on yourself but on all those with whom you come in contact. With this power behind an idea, the Plan becomes so potent that soon it becomes a driving force behind you.
To illustrate the theory on "How to Turn Your Ideas into Money," I want to tell you how I actually do it. Some years ago I had an idea of making Nigeria a better place by writing inspirational poems to change the mindset of Nigerians. I had to carefully arrange my ideas into a book form and strategically requested the minister for Niger Delta, Elder Godsday Peter Orubebe to write the foreword of the book, thereby adding credibility and leverage to it. Today, the book is a resounding success, daily fetching money for me. To accomplish this unparalleled record it was necessary for me to know something about ideas, and how to get these ideas over to people in order to get results. I liked the idea of personal development and nation building. This was only an idea that struck my Emotion. The Judgment passed on the idea and declared it sound. The Desire was aroused and convinced me that the idea could be turned into money. The question was how to do it?
Selling is a good deal like farming. The farmer has to plant the seed. In doing so, he has no assurance of a crop. He does know that he must sow before he can reap. The Bible teaches him: "Whatsoever ye sow, that shall ye also reap." The Mosaic Law tells him that everything in nature increaseth after its own kind.
The farmer is like the salesman. The farmer plants seed. The salesman plants ideas. The ideas of your product, like seeds, will never grow a crop of sales unless they are planted. The salesman reaps as he sows. The more ideas he sows, the more sales he will reap.
The idea of personal development and nation building incorporated into a book plan of inspirational poems, put in action by Faith, became a force. The National Orientation Agency and ministry of the Niger Delta partnered with me to buy copies of the book for Nigeria both at home and in the diaspora. It arrested attention, it incited interest, it persuaded and convinced Nigerians and these government agencies to act. It created sales, it produced results, it turned the idea of personal development and nation building into money for me.
Ideas are inexhaustible, they are limitless. Capture one, adopt it, create a Body for it, and make a real child out of it. The child sometimes grows to be a giant.
John D. Rockefeller captured the idea to furnish light to millions of people, by the use of oil. He gave the idea a Body. At first it was a little, tiny baby, but twenty-five years later it was a billion-dollar giant.
Adolph Ochs, the late publisher of the New York Times, captured the idea to present the news truthfully and impartially and around this idea built one of the finest publications in the World.
Henry Ford captured an idea of transportation. He gave the idea an automobile Body, painted it black, and called it Model T, and turned it into a fortune of over a billion dollars.
Cyrus McCormick had an idea. Around this idea, he evolved a reaper to cut and bind the wheat all in the same operation. The International Harvester Corporation was the result.
Edison gave his idea a body--"The Phonograph. His Master's Voice." He certainly had no worries about where the next meal was coming from.
All those who have made contributions in the form of services, inventions, discoveries and science, have given their idea either a Body or a Plan. An idea can mean nothing until it is incorporated into a Plan or built into a Body.
An idea takes form as it is conceived in word, thought, thing or action, according to your belief in it. Believe in your idea, concentrate on it, give it a Plan or a Body. The minute you concentrate on your Idea, new thoughts, new ideas, new measures, new ways and new methods are opened up to help make it a reality. Drop a pebble into a pool of water. It starts a series of ripples that expand until they encompass the whole pool. This is what happens when you give your idea a Plan. It seems that you tap that great creative force within. It turns that dynamic hidden something from within into a thousand friends all eager and willing to help you. It makes others feel about your idea the way you feel. It gives you all the power necessary to put your idea into action. You can persuade and convince. It makes the idea a vital, living force, the most subtle and irresistible force in the world. The idea strengthens your character and gives form, color, essence and substance to that which you desire. You can outstrip every unfavorable situation, solve all problems, and master every condition that stands in the way between you and the accomplishment of your idea. You can have anything you want--anything your heart desires. You can turn your Ideas into Money. Try it.
Thanks a bunch and may God bless your heart.
Regards,
TM™2013©

Tuesday, February 19, 2013

10 Habits of Remarkably Charismatic People



Some people instantly make us feel important. Some people instantly make us feel special. Some people light up a room just by walking in.

We can’t always define it, but some people have it: They’re naturally charismatic.

Unfortunately, natural charisma quickly loses its impact. Familiarity breeds, well, familiarity.

But some people are remarkably charismatic: They build and maintain great relationships, consistently influence (in a good way) the people around them, consistently make people feel better about themselves–they’re the kind of people everyone wants to be around…and wants to be.

Fortunately we can, because being remarkably charismatic isn’t about our level of success or our presentation skills or how we dress or the image we project–it’s about what we do.

Here are the 10 habits of remarkably charismatic people:

1. They listen way more than they talk.

Ask questions. Maintain eye contact. Smile. Frown. Nod. Respond–not so much verbally, but non-verbally.

That’s all it takes to show the other person they’re important.

Then when you do speak, don’t offer advice unless you’re asked. Listening shows you care a lot more than offering advice, because when you offer advice in most cases you make the conversation about you, not them.

Don’t believe me? Who is “Here’s what I would do…” about: you or the other person?

Only speak when you have something important to say–and always define important as what matters to the other person, not to you.

2. They don’t practice selective hearing.

Some people — I guarantee you know people like this — are incapable of hearing anything said by the people they feel are somehow beneath them.

Sure, you speak to them, but that particular falling tree doesn’t make a sound in the forest, because there’s no one actually listening.

Remarkably charismatic people listen closely to everyone, and they make all of us, regardless of our position or social status or “level,” feel like we have something in common with them.

Because we do: We’re all people.

3. They put their stuff away.

Don’t check your phone. Don’t glance at your monitor. Don’t focus on anything else, even for a moment.

You can never connect with others if you’re busy connecting with your stuff, too.

Give the gift of your full attention. That’s a gift few people give. That gift alone will make others want to be around you and remember you.

4. They give before they receive — and often they never receive.

Never think about what you can get. Focus on what you can provide. Giving is the only way to establish a real connection and relationship.

Focus, even in part and even for a moment, on what you can get out of the other person, and you show that the only person who really matters is you.

5. They don’t act self-important…

The only people who are impressed by your stuffy, pretentious, self-important self are other stuffy, pretentious, self-important people.

The rest of us aren’t impressed. We’re irritated, put off, and uncomfortable.

And we hate when you walk in the room.

6. …Because they realize other people are more important.

You already know what you know. You know your opinions. You know your perspectives and points of view.

That stuff isn’t important, because it’s already yours. You can’t learn anything from yourself.

But you don’t know what other people know, and everyone, no matter who they are, knows things you don’t know.

That makes them a lot more important than you — because they’re people you can learn from.

7. They shine the spotlight on others.

No one receives enough praise. No one. Tell people what they did well.

Wait, you say you don’t know what they did well?

Shame on you — it’s your job to know. It’s your job to find out ahead of time.

Not only will people appreciate your praise, they’ll appreciate the fact you care enough to pay attention to what they’re doing.

Then they’ll feel a little more accomplished and a lot more important.

8. They choose their words.

The words you use impact the attitude of others.

For example, you don’t have to go to a meeting; you get to go meet with other people. You don’t have to create a presentation for a new client; you get to share cool stuff with other people. You don’t have to go to the gym; you get to work out and improve your health and fitness.

You don’t have to interview job candidates; you get to select a great person to join your team.

We all want to associate with happy, enthusiastic, fulfilled people. The words you choose can help other people feel better about themselves — and make you feel better about yourself, too.

9. They don’t discuss the failings of others…

Granted, we all like hearing a little gossip. We all like hearing a little dirt.

The problem is, we don’t necessarily like — and we definitely don’t respect — the people who dish that dirt.

Don’t laugh at other people. When you do, the people around you wonder if you sometimes laugh at them.

10. …But they readily admit their failings.

Incredibly successful people are often assumed to have charisma simply because they’re successful. Their success seems to create a halo effect, almost like a glow.

Keyword is seem.

You don’t have to be incredibly successful to be remarkably charismatic. Scratch the shiny surface, and many successful people have all the charisma of a rock.

But you do have to be incredibly genuine to be remarkably charismatic.

Be humble. Share your fu-kups. Admit your mistakes. Be the cautionary tale. And laugh at yourself.

While you should never laugh at other people, you should always laugh at yourself.

People won’t laugh at you. People will laugh with you.

They’ll like you better for it–and they’ll want to be around you a lot more.
Thanks!
Regards,
TM™2012©

My TAKE as we BEAT our paths daily to SUCCESS and FULFILMENT in 2013.

1- Remember always that some people will desperately need your help...Help them!

2- 2013 is not a year for people with small minds (except you’re actually one, in which case u shouldn’t be reading this)

3- Your GREATEST job as an entrepreneur in 2013 should be to reduce dependencies!

4- If you MUST do anything in 2013, do something BIG. Doing any less isn’t worth it!

5- Build the next 10-20 years of your life in 2013 by what you will DO.

6- Be INTENTIONAL in 2013. Change DELIBERATELY...Enforce your ORIGINALITY!

7- Let’s face it. Your life would either be BETTER or WORSE in 2013. Fortunately you get to choose which ONE!

8- Don’t waste your time on people who would rather have your pity than your help!

9- In 2013 get ANGRY!

Angry at your situation.

Angry enough to do something about it. LEAVE your COMFORT zone!

10- In 2013 Dream BIG dreams. But don’t go back to sleep until you achieve them...else you may get nightmares!

11- Do MORE in 2013...More than the limits of your fears!

12- In 2013 live your BEST. I know it’s a common saying but really LIVE YOUR BEST!

13- In 2013 don’t do it all. Get a TEAM or join a TEAM. Together, Everyone Achieves MORE!

14- 2013 is a year to DELIBERATELY FORCE an IMPRESSION to speak because everyone has a voice!

15- 2013 is a year for me to become a part of something BIGGER than myself!

16- 2013 is a year to be COURAGEOUS!

17- 2013 is a year to affect your WORLD...not infect it!

18- In 2013 make a few friends who can help you and many friends who you can help!

19- In 2013 develop your own supply chain of inspiration with your INSPIRED VISION. Always live inspired!

20- In 2013 make it a duty to inspire others...especially with your INSPIRED VISION!

21- In 2013 stay Hungry...Hungry for KNOWLEDGE and NEW INFORMATION to get BETTER at what you do!

22- In 2013, learn from many people but remember to never BE them. You’ve got a different script to play out...YOU are DIFFERENT and your DIFFERENCE is your CRITICAL Success factor!

23- In 2013 COMMIT to LEARN not just to EARN!

24- In 2013, whatever you do, build the right network. Network=NET-WORTH!

25- CONSTANTLY remind yourself that in 2013 I’ll be completely honest with myself!

26- In 2013 I won’t be too busy to pray!

27- Its great to plan but GREATER to realize that the journey is most important....LIVE!LEARN!LIVE LEGACY in 2013!

28- In 2013 I will live a balanced life!

29- In 2013 I will make mistakes, I’ll fail. But I’ll fail forward and become BETTER for it!

30- In 2013 I’ll LIVE & not just EXIST. Be SIGNIFICANT & not just SUCCEED. Be FULFILLED & not just ACHIEVE!

31- In 2013 I will commit myself to my

PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT!

32- In 2013 I will be happy by making others HAPPY!

33- In 2013 I will be RESOURCEFUL!

34- In 2013 I’ll attempt the impossible and ERASE impossibility from my WORLD!

35- In 2013 I will Occupy my MIND with the kingdom of GOD and EVERY other thing shall be ADDED to me!

GOD Bless YOU!
TM™2012©

26 Successful People Who Failed At First






We always hear the success stories but we rarely hear about the struggles and failures of the world's most successful people. Here then, are 26 famous winners who started with a whimper.

1. Winston Churchill failed the sixth grade. He was defeated in every public office role he ran for. Then he became the British prime minister at the age of 62.

2. Thomas Edison's teachers told him he was "too stupid to learn anything." Edison also famously invented 1,000 light bulbs before creating one that worked.

3.Harland David Sanders, the famous KFC "Colonel," couldn't sell his chicken. More than 1,000 restaurants rejected him. But then one did, and today there are KFC restaurants bearing his image all over the world.

4. R.H. Macy had a history failing businesses, including a dud Macy's in NYC. But Macy kept up the hard work and ended up with the biggest department store in the world.

5. Steven Spielberg was rejected from his dream school, the University of Southern California, three times. He sought out an education somewhere else and dropped out to be a director.

6. Charlie Chaplin's act was rejected by executives because they thought it was too obscure for people to understand. But then they took a chance on Chaplin, who went on to become America's first bona fide movie star.

7. Marilyn Monroe's first contract with Columbia Pictures expired because they told her she wasn't pretty or talented enough to be an actress.

8. Soichiro Honda was passed over for an engineering job at Toyota and left unemployed. But then he began making motorcycles, started a business and became a billionaire.

9. Vera Wang failed to make the U.S. Olympic figure-skating team. Then she became an editor at Vogue and was passed over for the editor-in-chief position. She began designing wedding gowns at 40 and today is the premier designer in the business, with a multi-billion dollar industry.

10. Walt Disney was fired by a newspaper editor because he "lacked imagination and had no good ideas." Several more of his businesses failed before the premiere of his movie Snow White. Today, most childhoods wouldn't be the same without his ideas.

11. Albert Einstein didn't speak until age four and didn't read until age seven. His teachers labelled him "slow" and "mentally handicapped." But Einstein just had a different way of thinking. He later won the Nobel prize in physics.

12. Charles Darwin was considered an average student. He gave up on a career in medicine and was going to school to become a parson. But as Darwin studied nature, he found his calling.

13. Sir Isaac Newton was tasked with running the family farm but was a miserable failure. Newton was sent off to Cambridge University and became a physics scholar.

14. Dick Cheney flunked out of Yale twice. George W. Bush once joked: "So now we know –if you graduate from Yale, you become president. If you drop out, you get to be vice president."

15. The first time Jerry Seinfeld went on stage, he was booed away by the jeering crowd. Eventually, he became a famous comic with one of the most-loved sitcoms ever.

16. In Fred Astaire's first screen test, the judges wrote: "Can't act. Can't sing. Slightly bald. Can dance a little." Astaire went on to be the most famous dancer of all time and won the hearts of American women forever.

17. After Sidney Poitier's first audition, the casting director instructed him to just stop wasting everyone's time and "go be a dishwasher or something." He went on to win an Academy Award and is admired by actors everywhere.

18. Oprah Winfrey was fired from her television reporting job because they told her she wasn't fit to be on screen. But Winfrey rebounded and became the undisputed queen of television talk shows. She's also a billionaire.

19. Lucille Ball spent many years on the B-list and her agent told her to pursue a new career. Then she got her big break on I Love Lucy.

20. After his first film, Harrison Ford underwhelmed the producer and was told he would probably never succeed. But today Ford is the third highest-grossing actor of all time.

21. Vincent Van Gogh only sold one painting in his entire life, to a friend. He sometimes starved in order to create the 800 paintings he'd eventually do. Today, his works are priceless.

22. Dr. Seuss' first book was rejected by 27 different publishers. He's now the most popular children's book author ever.

23. Henry Ford's first auto company went out of business. He abandoned a second because of a fight and a third went downhill because of declining sales. He went on to become one of the greatest American entrepreneurs ever.

24. While developing his vacuum, Sir James Dyson went through 5,126 failed prototypes and his savings over 15 years. But the 5,127th prototype worked and now the Dyson brand is the best-selling vacuum cleaner in the United States.

25. J.K. Rowling was unemployed, divorced and raising a daughter on social security while writing the first Harry Potter novel. J.K. Rowling is now internationally renowned for her 7 book Harry Potter series and is the first person to become a billionaire from writing.

26. Stephen King was initially so frustrated with his first novel, Carrie that he threw it in the trash. King's wife found the manuscript in the trash and took it out. To date his 49 novels have sold 350 million copies.

Who said you can't make it!
This is 2013...commit to be dogged and relentless in the pursuit of your DREAMS...the world will celebrate YOU!
God bless YOU!
Regards,
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TM™2013©